I'm so glad to find a forum like this one! I could really use some advice with my dear cat Lily. I'll try and keep this short, so if you need more info, just let me know.
We're having some serious issues with little Lily, and both me and my vet clinic (all 3 of the doctors) are at a loss as to what to do.
Some background:
* she was born with a rare dental disease where her body thinks her teeth are foreign objects, and therefore attack the roots and make the gums screaming red and painful...and the teeth eventually fall out. Her first vet said that while her gums/teeth were bad, it wasn't something to really worry about. She was 1 at the time. They quoted me $5,000 to remove her teeth. YIKES! Despite this dental issue, she always ate dry food, and seems to prefer it over wet, surprisingly. (she gets both wet and dry food)
* When she was a year old, we got another cat, Angus. He likes her, she's not his biggest fan. If he gets too close, she swipes at him or growls, but mostly, they leave each other alone. The doggie is universally loved in the house - Lily sleeps against him, while Angus cleans his ears. Quite the picture.
About a year ago, at 3 years old, she started pooping around the house in miscellaneous places. I figured she didn't like the clay litter, so I tried pretty much every kind on the market - newspaper, wheat, corn, crystals, scented, un-scented; and started to clean the boxes once a day. This didn't help the problem. So I added another box, which brought the total to 4. (overkill for 2 cats, I thought - but worth a shot!) It was a bit better for a while, but then everything went real bad. It got to a point that she left me a pile to clean every single morning. [very occasionally is was diarrhea]
Then, one day, she started peeing around the house too. And in really obvious places - the bath mat, welcome mat, in the centre of the dog's bed...peeyew...and 2 weeks later we took her into a new vet.
She had a blood test, urinalysis, fecal...nothing. All normal. So, we bit the bullet and had her teeth removed which the vet thought could be the issue. This was a month ago now.
She has been confined to a roomy bathroom since her surgery, with her own window, litter, toys, bed and food dish. She's happier since the surgery, and seems to enjoy being in the bathroom.
The problem: she's STILL pooping outside of the box. And, 99% of the time, is explosive diarrhea. I mean, it's <i>everywhere</i>. It will happen in the morning and at night for 3 or 4 or 5 days in a row, and then she'll be find for 3 or 4 days straight.
I took her back to the vet, and they gave me 3 different types of food. She loved the medi-cal hypoallergenic stuff, so I bought her a bunch of cans and fed her that only.
It's been 2 weeks since she's started the food, and she's STILL having the diarrhea problem. I called the vet AGAIN, and now they're recommending different - and expensive - foods for her. I have since gotten her grain-free wet food.
Thing is, I don't think food is the problem. I've landed on "attracting" litter - with a soothing/calming lavender scent. She likes it. She now uses the litter box to pee, and doesn't mind using the box, but pooping is a free-for-all.
Does she have something like IBS? Is it behavioural? Any other ideas?
Thank you so much!
I don't want to give up on my girl - but it's frustrating, stressful and tiring!