Weird aggression in cat. overreacting?

[Traci]

Well, you could be correct about the prior environment, I'm not so sure as a result of declawing, but rather the clinic evironment, poked and prodded etc. However, that was probably why he was chosen as a donor (I am assuming for blood donation), he probably had a wonderful demeanor in the beginning (this is typical of Maine Coons)

It could also be that he may not have had much of a chance to develop social and interactive skills, whether that be with other cats or humans. So, when you approach to pet or bond with him, he may be apprehensive because he didn't develop those skills as a kitten. I would suggest not forcing your attention on him (that is, petting and handling), but rather let him choose to come to you for that, at his convenience. You are doing the right things by using the spray bottle etc, but you could also try blowing a puff of air into his face with a stern "NO", then ignoring him or distancing yourself from him physically for a few moments each time. With this approach, he should soon learn that biting you will not reward him your affection. Try also diverting his attention to a favorite toy after you've given your "NO" and ignore him for a few moments. This may take some time and patience, but with repeated attempts, it should work.

As for your other kitty, try involving them both in playtime and activity. Use interactive toys and involve them together and encourage them to play together, or at the least, in the same room, close to each other. You should attempt this on a daily basis, so that Sophia will learn that Royal is not a threat to her or intimidating to her.

I rarely advocate anti-depressant drugs for cats, unless the situation escalates to a point where the owner is ready to give up the cat entirely. These drugs usually only mask the problem and many will sedate the cat or introduce side effects that truly are not necessary. A great majority of behavioral issues can be resolved with committment on the owner's part, time and patience and a whole lot of love and forgiveness. It sounds like you are willing to make that comittment.

[Redwiz]

Traci- thank you so much for taking the time to respond to my delimma. I will incorporate your recommendations. A friend of mine said rarely can you change a cat's behavior , have you seen this done, or for that matter how many of you out there have changed your cats aggressive or defensive behavior? I would be interested in knowing. Again, Traci thanks for taking the time, the information is appreciated.

[Traci]

It depends on what type of behavior you are trying to change. In your case, I would say with confidence, that the situation could resolve nicely, in time. Once your kitty establishes a trust with you and is secure in his environment, the biting behavior should diminish and be replaced with acceptable behavior on his part.

Most behavioral issues can be resolved when the owner is completely comitted to the task and can exercise tolerance, patience and forgiveness with their cat(s). It may take longer with some cats than others, but a willingness to succeed on the owner's part makes all the difference. Owners have to learn how cats behave or react to certain situations, understand the causes and work toward a solution that benefits both the cat and the owner.

[Redwiz]

Several months ago I posted regarding my cat Royal's behavior with biting. I have taken Tracie's suggestions, and I must add that after several months Royal's behavior has improved. While the biting response continues, the frequency is less and less. This cat is a true joy to be around ...he is a maine coon, and since I have learned that this breed of cat is not a lap cat or one that needs attention. When he craves attention he demonstrates this just by being near. Recently I had a dinner party for 12, and Royal hung out in the dinning room, laying on his back with his feet in the air. He was very comfortable in the room with so many strangers, laughing and talking.

Thanks for all your suggestions,