the loss of a loved one is always painful.
the advice given about pampering yourself and caring for burbank is well founded.
heres something else that can help both you and burbank get over this grief and help others out as well. if burbank is comfortable with a little travel and is social;
call around to your local shelters and vets and ask about volunteer time.
you can help out with the elderly, foster homes, assisted living or many other types of help organizations by simply having half hour or hour small group sessions in which burbank gets to share attention with some needy people.
you never know he might like it and you could get some much needed therapy along with! this may also help when he reallizes its time to see his sister...
