I ended up sending Anna to live with my brother since he has no kids or other pets, and way more time. He says that she's doing great She hasn't flipped out once. One of the kittens got picked up yesterday and, my mom's taking another today they are only 7 weeks old so I was going to keep them longer, however since Anna isn't allowed to be by them there was no reason to keep them here. So now we are down to Cassy, the one I'm keeping and Sammy. They have been smelling eachother and seeing eachother through bars for Cassy's whole life, so, I thought introductions would be easy, but, Sammy hit's. When we introduced him to Anna he did this but, Anna made it perfectly clear that she was not a force to be reconed with, so, he stoped. It's just a claws in kinda quick touch thing, but, it still troubles me. When he does this to Cassy she puffs up hisses and Sammy runs away, then, he slowly comes back, and, does it again. Is this normal? She doesn't act like it hurt's, but, can he hurt her like this? Him hitting is my fault, because, we play a game were we try to touch the others hands. Other than the hitting there are no signs of aggression.
Thanks,
Saphire