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thanks for your answer traci. they were never confined to just one room. each of them had their own room to stay in either at day or at night but got to roam the house while the other one was in their room. anyhow i'm just worn out from today, will keep you posted.

I don't know if anyone remembers me writing about my aggressive cat, Mitzi, last month but I'm back and the news isn't good. She still can't stand the sight of the other cat even after all this time. I've kept them seperated for the last month and made a few attempts at reuniting them with no luck. ...

patience is the key to trying to solve these kind of problems. I have a problem between two of my cats who have been living peacefully for almost five years until a week and a half ago. I know how upsetting it is and it's taken me a good while to finally calm down. doesn't mean the frustration is go...

I think moth balls (and or crystals) are toxic to cats and I don't think the other owner would want anything to happen to her cat. there are special products made that repel cats. I'm sorry I don't know the exact name but there's sprays and crystals that can be used. they hate the smell of the stuff...

ok so for anyone that's been following my story here's today's update. I decided not to try and have kitties interact today. mostly because I myself am not calm enough (hectic day at work among other things) and I feel I might stress them out too much. the nights have gotten better though and everyo...

thanks for the info Ma. I really am learning a lot of things I didn't know. mitzi seems to be scared every time she comes out of her comfort room. strange since she is the one that's the attacker. but maybe that's why she's attacking out of fear. she does it so quick too though. i think tomorrow i'm...

Ma- I had a feeling they could sense my stress. there's a lot of other things not going well in my life right now and like i said my cats always offered me comfort and now they're one of my stress factors. I didn't know much about how to handle aggression between cats so i took the wrong approach wh...

I just noticed i said I had my female cats neutered instead of spayed in my first post! duh, no wonder people didn't want to answer my post it hardly made sense! you can tell the toll this is taking on me.

there is no aggression between mitizi and the other female sookie. they do good and are quiet when they're together so I keep them together. the problem is between mitzi and mikki and it was always mitzi who attacked mikki after the incident on the bed. I think i'll keep them apart for today and mak...

yeah, the two females get along well, i can't seperate them actually. I guess they both know they are going through a tough time together. I'm glad to hear that the comfort zone plug ins work because I ordered two from petsmart along with some feliway spray. I think i'm going to give it a few more d...